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Dealing with Disappointment

 I am certainly a work in progress.  My hearts desire is to grow more like Jesus, but I still have a long way to go. 😉  One of the things I find myself dealing with on occasion is disappointment.  This isn’t new.  On occasion, we  all deal with disappointment from the time we are a child till the grave but I am asking God to give me a better attitude towards it.  We need to be careful not to allow it to grow into discouragement.  If you break it down disappointment really boils down to a lack of faith and trust in the Word because  Romans 8:28 NIV says,  28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.  

I know for certain that I love Him and I know that I have been called so this Word is as true for me as it is for all of my brothers and sisters in Christ! Therefore, it is imperative that I trust Him to work things for the good, despite how they may look to me. I have seen God move in and through my life many times since I came to Christ and I know that I know He is faithful and true.  So I must guard my heart from allowing any disappointments to lead to discouragement or perhaps even bitterness.

When disappointment comes, our attitude towards it can cause us to grow spiritually or to wither.  I am determined, that despite my not so great attitude at times towards it, I must allow God to use it  to draw me closer to Him and make me more like His Son.

Whether your disappointments come in the form of other people, yourself or circumstances beyond your control, join me in asking God to allow them to mold us more into the image of Jesus.  He dealt with so many disappointments. His disciples let Him down multiple times for example  in the Garden of Gethsemane when He asked them to stay awake and pray for Him, they fell asleep.  Though He demonstrated love and mercy to those He met, He saw the disciples act out of anger and fear on numerous occasions, instead of following His example such as Peter when he cut off the guards ear or when Peter’s lack of faith caused him to doubt when Jesus called him to walk upon the sea.  We have a Savior and Lord that knew disappointment firsthand yet it did not keep Him from fulfilling the purpose God had for Him just as we cannot let disappointment keep us from fulfilling the purpose God has called us to.

Lord, give us such a love for You that we will trust You completely whether we understand a thing or not.  When our heart is full of disappointment, give us the grace to carry on and trust You in everything without whining and complaining.  Increase our faith so that we will keep our eyes on You and not on others  or our circumstances and make us more like You Jesus.

In your precious name,

Amen.

Faith is often strengthened right at the place of disappointment. ~Rodney McBride 

Lean In & Trust Him

Proverbs 3:5-6  5Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

Proverbs 3:5-6 5Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

From time to time most of us find ourselves in situations that we really don’t understand. When things outside our control seem to take off with a life of their own and before we know it we are reeling from the after effects. I have been in that situation more than once and initially want to react out of fear. But as followers of Christ, God has NOT given us the spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind! 2 Timothy 1:7  I don’t quote this to make light of any difficult time you may be encountering but to get you back to the reality of who God is and what His Word ensures us.

Without any trials, testing or difficult times, we never really get to see just how faithful and true God’s Word is. It can be depended upon in every situation. There are no surprises to God. Though we don’t understand why some of the challenges in life come our way, we can trust that He knows the beginning from the end and is not intimidated or stressed by our difficulties. He longs for us to bring our needs before Him and then do something that does not come natural…TRUST HIM.  As we read in Romans 8:28 NIVAnd we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.  Not in some or the odd one but in ALL things.

Though we most often don’t understand what the purpose is for our difficult times, we still have no reason to fear. His ways are far above our ways. So when we find ourselves in one of these situations the first thing we must do is seek Him and ask for His help. James 5:16 NIV 16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. Prayer is the most powerful tool God has given us! Use it without hesitation.  If God does not bring instant relief from our circumstances, we need to wait on Him and trust Him while we wait. Often the most growth happens during the waiting and trusting period. It is when we learn to trust our God with abandon!

While you wait on God, there are many scriptures that will strengthen you and sustain you. Here are just a few to start with…

Proverbs 3:5,6 NIV Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

2 Corinthians 4:8-18 NIVWe are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. 10 We always carry around in our body the death of Jesus, so that the life of Jesus may also be revealed in our body. 11 For we who are alive are always being given over to death for Jesus’ sake, so that his life may also be revealed in our mortal body. 12 So then, death is at work in us, but life is at work in you.13 It is written: “I believed; therefore I have spoken.” Since we have that same spirit of faith, we also believe and therefore speak, 14 because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus from the dead will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you to himself. 15 All this is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God.16 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. 17 For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. 18 So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

Isaiah 41:10 NIV 10 So do not fear, for I am with you;  do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

and finally one of my favorite verses….

Joshua 1:9 NIV 9 ” Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

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“Anything under God’s control is never out of control.”-Charles R. Swindoll